The Mystery of the Submissive Cuckold Man


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Dr. Dawn Michael sex therapist gives you an intimate view on men that are submissive cucks and how they deal with their cuckold sexual fetish. Understanding this very complicated sexual fetish is one of the many topics that sex therapist Dr. Michael has spent years researching.
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  • Check out my couples guide book and intimacy exercises. It will give you step by step information on how to improve the sexual intimacy in your relationship.

    Dr. Dawn Michael 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • If I meditate, and feel backwards along my timeline, I can intuit alternate pathways and feel the self that became a cuckold. That way lies broken road

    QuartuvLarry 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Thanks, great insight. I'm a divorced (65yr old, healthy active)♂a while so single and am interested in the ♀DOM/♁SUB union that has opened up to me. A potential mate/play partner has presented herself and interested in exploring deeper. She is unmarried, and identifies as a gentle DOM. It will be a whole new dynamic than my marriage (I was loyal, never submitted to staining my marriage though I was often presented with opportunities) was strictly monog. I've subscribed.

    Gary Bowen 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I would like to taste another man's juices off her breast bit I won't push

    semaj epits 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • That's me… Would not change it for the world..wife loves it

    sam brandt 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Professional BBC available for her. Cucks contact me.

    BLACK STAG 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Dawn needs to cut this video short. Some BBC waiting for her at home..

    marde koskesh 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • There is nothing quite like having a good ol cuck and then downing a litre of bleach.
    Really hits the spot

    Melbournaut 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Hi Dawn , I have recently been turned on by my girlfriend flirting with other guys . We talked for a week about this whole having fun experience.
    At first she was ok and liked the idea of flirting, and to do it. She would do it at work , and tell me about it. We have been talking about it and adding more permissions, like touching and getting phone numbers. She is into it and now wants to also go more and make out and oral. But the line is sex for both of us, it's purely physical fun, and it really turns me on thinking about her doing this. She will even do it in public in front of me.
    I've had this sense of excitement and nervousness all week, and never been turned on before in my entire life .
    I know she will always love me, and will be with me , but I'm a bit worried for the next step. She wants to do it, and so do I , but I'm a bit worried. She's been flirting with this one guy, and will go on his car tomorrow.
    Is this nervousness before the first time normal? I want to do it, and her to do it ,and so does she . Should I follow through ?

    knight banneret 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I'm a Bull… help me.

    Adrian Di Paolo 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • What to do if suddenly a wife becomes pregnant from a bull, especially a black guy?

    Pavel G 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Thank you for putting this information out there. I love sex psychology! Will you make a video about submissive females?

    Dramamine 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • "If he really loved me, why would he want me to have sex with another man?" Because by wanting her to have sex with a better guy, he would be helping her to find better genetics. As soon as women realize this is better for evolution, it won't be a men fetish anymore, it will be the new regular sex. The times when the women ended up fallin' in love with the bull weren't failures. They were actually success.

    Lucas de Aquino 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • How about the clear-cut scenario. She loses all respect for the guy. Enter the findom. Someone cheats on you. You feel inadequate what's wrong with me. And for a guy it must be his penis or his penis doesn't work. Accepting his fate but wants to hold on to a person he loves. The individual what do whatever it takes to hang on to the relationship. Flipside the female gets pregnant. In the end most of the time it doesn't work. For the guy male chastity. Allow the female to become abusive. The female is already losing respect for him and thinks he's a loser. And I'll try to satisfy her where he is sexually inadequate. And at this point he is sexually inadequate back to your mind controls your penis. Castration enters in some point either the balls or the penis and balls will be removed to show his devotion and that he's not a threat. Which of the relationship is going on this far will be accepted. But to be indignant she's getting f*** buy another guy and their bonding. The man has put himself in a position of being no more then a little child. No testosterone no sexual drive. He will then also try to please his new father in any way possible. Female in a relationship is pragmatic.. the castrated man benefits her he'll stay. He doesn't he's gone. She is not have respect for him for a very long time. And her thoughts are he got what he wanted and I help him get it. All this falls on the individual female dealing with a situation dealing with the situation. I would say 25 to 30% of them go this far. The fem dom relationship it's more to do with a female interjecting then the first case scenario. But generally over time they female loses respect for the man and it whines up basically the same way.

    Barry Ives 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • this is a great explanation. thank you for the explanation.

    Sissy Chuck 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Wanda ofVenus in Fur said to Stephane (previously Servian): Now that you are my Slave, you cannot no longer be my Husband…is that still true or is that the mindset of 1890 when Venus in Furs was written..I think this audio book on youtube is fun to listen to about the conversations in a cuckhold relationship.

    Andre EWERT 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Cucks are weak men who deserve to lose their women!

    Thomas Larson 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • The black male fetish is a bit worrying as its rooted in racism.

    Frank Garrett 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • what a load of crap your talking, you know nothing about this lifestyle and seem to be putting it down, stop over analysing stuff!

    Dave hawkins 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Only works if you both have trust and open communication

    Lisa Rynberg 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Can't understand why a woman would want to be sexually monogamous–it's like saying, for food, I'd be happy with oatmeal three times a day, forever. That monogamy fetish is against human nature, the product of a repressive bronze-age cult that somehow took over the Western world and oppressed lusty women. There are many women who are now becoming free, finally, I know a few, who are married and play with others.

    Mike Lovecutefeet 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • We think that it is semi normal for the hubby to be a little jealous of the guy that has sex with the wife but yet turned on as my hubby is when we do it.

    Brad Maria 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I'd like to actually discuss this, but the trolls are distracting and derailing. I'd like to get deep into the question of the mindset of the cuckhold – and the cuckholder. And what it says about perceptions of sex and gender in society

    Lesj Conj 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I want to get into this lifestyle with my wife any advice

    seanlamar29 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • An excellent clinical presentation.

    Joe Piervincenti 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I was involved in a relationship with an older dominant female for ten years. She would date other men on line who she met in chat rooms and would talk to me about the dates afterward. Most of the dates were men who were sexually agressive with bigger man hoods than mine. Many of my friends and family did not understand why I would allow this and stay in the relationship. The answer was multifactorial: I didn’t want the pressure of having to please her and was also turned on by being controlled sexually. It made me feel very vulnerable as well which formed a connection. I do believe she loved me as well i loved her. Unfortunately she became uninterested in me and left the relationship which is what happens to most couples in this situation.

    Meow-10 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • This could bring a lot more clarity into my relationship. Thanks

    gusts china 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • men who are cucks are weak and deserve to perish.

    Humans must purge weak genes

    Abeba Uba 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • wow that was amazing.

    king righteous 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Your videos are a great service in explaining many thing snot only for males but also females and it helps to sit and realize what it is and is not even if you only hear it and understand but cannot control.

    bob8343343 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I've been married for 10 years and me and my wife have been in cuckold relationship for 8 years we both love it and have 3 children from this. she's never rejected a man or even a group of men and our marriage is great

    James Clay Smith 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Hi Dr. Michael,
    I just wanted to know if I could ask your advice on how to meet dominant women for a cuckold type relationship, where, is there some place or method, any websites that you can recommend? Thank you

    Patrick Speer 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Cuck hold is cheating still

    Austyn Price 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Im just saying if my girl cuck held me the guys is geting his dick cut off and my wife gone cause its still cheating

    Austyn Price 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Love your videos! You're an educated professional with counseling experience and therefore don't speak out of school, unlike some. OK, I have a few things. First, it's not always a male-driven fetish. I know of a cuck mixer where women go to find a serious relationship who can be their cuck. They seek out guys who agree with her having 100% sexual freedom while he's under her tight control, usually enforced chastity. Second, if a woman falls into the mode of thinking which questions her husband's love for her because he likes seeing her with other men, it's because she still considers sex and love mutually inclusive. If she does not want to separate those two things, it might not work. Third, there's indeed always the risk of the female falling love with her bull and that's why you need agreed upon rules. 1) You never allow one guy to stick around for too long no matter how good the sex. You can put a time limit on each guy, say three months or whatever you agree upon. He can always be invited back at a later date, but only after he's been gone for an specified period of time. 2) She should have more than one boyfriend, basically a rotation. If she has three bulls, each one could spend the night twice a week. It's completely up to her. In the end, both parties must want this way of life and agree on the rules. If not, it's best not to go down that road. One of my best friends is in this type of relationship, so I constantly hear about it.

    ibuprofenPill 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Normally, we would jump up and kill a guy touching our wife, if we're married, so the guy who accepts that must be gay?! I am pro being more open from the start about that, so no issues like that would ever occur in the future.

    John Callaghan 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I am a sub cuck to my Dominating wife/Mistress. Everything Dr. Dawn said described me/us. She controls all the money. She tossed my male underwear, I have been wearing panties since we married 12 yrs ago. We shave each other— legs and crotches. She ties me up, spanks me, She bought me pink shorts, blouses, nighties. She controls every aspect of my life. I wear the cb3000 cock cage 24/7. She requires me to provide her with 10 orgasms orally, before I am allowed 1; which must be licked up promptly afterwards. She decides the 5-W’s (Who, What, Why, Where, When and How of everything. We both love our roles. Which were established while we dated.

    Walter Wood 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Way to make an interesting subject utterly boring!!

    digital1 ministry9 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder

    ENEPEPE Rafa 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I always thought twice when I was being called a young bull or shoulder rubs by random white guys before I could even think to react or their wife’s compliment me right in front of them it’s always that weird feeling in my stomach where I’m like their looking right throw me

    Mansa Joka 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I am submissive cuckold. I been cuckolded by my wife and her boyfriend and I love it.

    Volodymyr Grygurko 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • My only issue with this video, is that you seem to be pathologizing the entire fetish collectively, when clearly there are a substantial number of couples who make this work well. I am neither jealous nor impotent, and I don't push my wife to engage in any sexual activity she's not fully on board for. We acknowledge and accept that she may develop a deeper emotional connection to her boyfriend than she one would normally experience while msrried to someone else, but that's ok. I know myself and am confident and secure in my identity, my sexuality and our relationship. We will always be each other's "number ones", but we also play around, her with her bf and me with a couple men on the side. I experience compersion, not jealousy, and it brings me joy to see her getting her rocks off and bonding as friends with another man. We've both known him for a long time, maybe that helps.

    feetjunkie 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • "Men AND Cuckolds".

    Cuckolds aren't men. Confirmed.

    Y-G-J 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • I never had thoughts of being a cuckold until my 40's.  It has overwhelmed me.  I have no idea how to tell my wife.  It's something I cannot stop thinking about.

    David Smith 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • It's not CUCKHOLD, lose the H…it's cuckold. You're driving me nuts!

    Kurrupt4Lyfe 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • It when my spouse uses a big strap on on me ! Feels amazing

    Rodney Lawrence 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • we both have come to the same conclusion, it is a male driven fetish, very few Women want many partners

    jessyka power 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • itsa sexual deviatiion .. like any one else and it can go away if u really want to … u can control ur sexuality…. when u combine building up sexual tension …u can deviate it each way u want…or the girl that dominates or the man…. maybe not completly the first time but in time .. u can develop this syndrome if your not carefull and dont guard your mind… usualy femdom or domina do this to theyr play partners… i understand teasing… even chastity to some point or some degree it can be fun but i think this people take this fantasy way to far…

    TheTruth 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
  • Hello Ma'am as a submissive I find that Most wemen don't know what to do with a submissive man. While he is there to please them and do what ever that woman asks of him at least sexually. Even worse they always expect a black man to be Dominate when some of us love being submissive and not the Black Bull type. I wish I could find a woman that is Bossy and demanding.!

    george harris 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder
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    boby loco 4 octubre, 2018 1:17 am Responder

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